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Dear Yvonne; Music

 Dear Yvonne, You have come a long way in life and you've realised that without music there were some chapters in your stories where you would have drowned. Music is a life source, a safety net, a confidence booster, a comfort place and best of all a friend during the darkest period. Music is the greatest gift mankind was gifted. For a while now we have loved a band called BTS. They are a south korean boy band formed in 2010 and they had their debut in 2013. They are composed of seven members; RM, Jin, Suga, Jhope, Jimin, V and Jungkook. They have been dropping great music since we were toddlers. Their music has been a beacon of light for us even before we became proper fans. Since 2020, during the time of the release of "Dynamite" and their first ever grammy performance, we loved their music but we didn't acknowledge ourselves as proper fans. Then again in 2021 during the time of the release of "Butter" we loved it too, we felt a draw and we were surface le...

Dear Yvonne: it's okay to be a work in progress

 Dear Yvonne,  You keep feeling like you should be further along now than you are. Like at your age you're supposed to have it all figured out and know where you're heading to in life. But the truth is that it's not that easy, infact it's hard because life is hard. Balancing Faith, school, feelings and even work is not something that's easy. Sometimes, you're going to compare yourself to people who you feel are better than you, sometimes, you're going to feel so depressed and anxious that it's going to feel like there's a noose on your neck that's tightening by the second, and sometimes you have these thoughts so dark that it scares you. You're wondering when you skittered so much out of control.  The truth is life is fickle and our teenage years even more so. These no handbook on how you're supposed to feel or how far ahead you're supposed to be. Comparison is dangerous especially nowadays where a lot of smiles and achievements on th...

Why I started Yvonne Unfiltered

 I have had this idea since forever but I have been too chicken to execute it. I have always thought that I need to have things figured out and I need to be at a certain place before I earn the right to share my thoughts but it's been years and my thoughts are still as chaotic as ever but I have decided to still share my thoughts anyway. This space is called Yvonne Unfiltered because I want it to be honest. Honest about Faith, Life, Heart matters and the struggles of being a teenager. I want to build it into a place where everyone can find their truth through my voice and discover themselves. I'm want to build this space into a place where everyone can understand that it's okay to not have perfect answers and to still be becoming. I started this blog as a place to write freely. A place where I can reflect, learn and grow out loud. Some posts will be about feelings, some will be about Faith, some will be about music and some may just be about thoughts I need to let go of. Bu...